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Letter 9 of 11. Patterns, Boundaries
Ever Wren
Dear Do You Want to Ride My biCYCLE?
to: the one riding in circles
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Dear, Do You Want to Ride My BiCYCLEBy Ever WrenYou know that feeling—when you think you’ve finally figured it out?You’re cruising along,smooth, steady, in control.And then—a bump appears out of nowhere.Suddenly, you’re spinning in circles,gripping the handlebars tighter,struggling to regain balance,and realizing you have no idea where you are.That’s what it felt like in my relationship.Every time I thought I was making progress,I’d hit the same curveand found myself right back at the start.And in that loop, I did what I always do—tried to mend the fractures he convinced me I carried.If he painted me as broken,I only worked harder.Surely, if I could fix myself,